Being very independent with your other half is a bad thing. He knowing that you could do everything by your own that he need not to help is bad. Really bad. Girls u gotta let him know that you could't do some typical things without him so that he could always help u.

Something u just gotta ask for help.
Sometimes it's not a bad thing to ask for help either.
Let him know that u need him but not so badly need him.
Don't ever be too independent to your the other half.
Show him that u are important to him in his life. like his own.

Don't be me. I donno how to handle a relationship even though mine was already 4 years.

We look good but our bolts are loosen up. Waiting for time to change if we still continue to use our own way to treat each other.